The Mind Behind Love

Why We Chase People Who Don’t Want Us (Love Psychology Series #2)It’s one of the most painful patterns in love: we give our heart to people who don’t seem to want it. We chase after those who pull away, remain emotionally unavailable, or give us just enough to keep us hoping—but never enough to feel secure.Why do we do this? Are we broken? Addicted to pain? Or is something deeper at play—somethi..

Why Saying “I Love You” Is So Hard: The Psychology of Emotional Vulnerability“I love you.” Three simple words, yet for many, they feel heavier than a thousand. Why do some people hesitate, avoid, or even fear saying them? Is it a fear of rejection, a lack of love, or something deeper rooted in the psychology of emotional vulnerability?In this post, Dr. Paul Lee explores the psychological barrier..

When You Don’t Feel Worthy of Real Love (Self-Worth & Attachment Series #1)Have you ever met someone who offered you calm, kind, secure love—yet instead of feeling safe, you felt nervous, suspicious, or even undeserving? Sometimes, the scariest thing isn’t being rejected. It’s being loved in a way we never believed we deserved.In this post, Dr. Paul Lee explores the emotional and psychological r..

How Childhood Wounds Shape Adult Attraction (Love Psychology Series #1)Have you ever wondered why you’re drawn to people who are emotionally unavailable, unpredictable, or even distant? Often, what we call “our type” isn’t about preference—it’s about programming. Much of our adult attraction is silently shaped by the emotional blueprint we developed in childhood.In this post, Dr. Paul Lee explor..

Why We Push or Pull in Love: The Psychology of Anxious and Avoidant Attachment Have you ever felt like you're loving too much while the other person seems to be pulling away? Or maybe you find yourself needing space the moment someone gets too close. These confusing patterns aren't random—they're rooted in what psychologists call attachment styles. Understanding them can completely transform how..

Why We Fall in Love: The Psychology Behind Romantic AttractionLove—it makes our hearts race, our minds wander, and our lives feel more vivid. But what if falling in love wasn’t purely magical? What if the feelings we experience during those early moments of connection are deeply rooted in psychology and shaped by patterns we don’t even notice?In this post, Dr. Paul Lee explores the psychology be..