The Mind Behind Love

Does being in control make you feel safe?On the surface, control looks like strength. You make the plans, keep things organized, and handle problems quickly. People may even admire your decisiveness and drive. But beneath the surface, control is often fueled by fear — the fear of things falling apart, of being hurt, or of not being good enough unless everything is under your watch.Real confidenc..

Why do we keep ending up in relationships that hurt?You meet someone kind. They communicate well. They respect your boundaries. And yet... something inside you feels off. Maybe even bored. Meanwhile, the moment someone inconsistent or emotionally distant shows up, your heart races. You feel "chemistry." You feel "pulled."This isn’t love. It’s recognition. You're not drawn to them because they’re..

"You're so strong — I don’t know how you do it."It’s a compliment, right? Strength is admirable. It’s the trait people praise when they see you carrying burdens with a steady face, offering support to others even when your own heart feels heavy.But what if that strength is a mask?Many who are seen as “the strong one” didn’t choose the role — it was given to them by necessity. Maybe you grew up i..