The Mind Behind Love

Love PsychologyEp20: Why Do Healthy Relationships Feel So Calm?“I used to think love should feel intense… but now it just feels peaceful.”If you’ve ever questioned why healthy love doesn’t feel like fireworks — this post is for you. 🌿Let’s explore why calm relationships aren’t boring — they’re healing. And why peace is often the greatest sign of love done right.1. Drama Isn’t Passion — It’s Dys..

Love PsychologyEp19: Why Does Love Feel So Easy With the Right Person? “I didn’t know love could feel like this…”When you meet the right person, something shifts. You don’t feel anxious, confused, or desperate to prove yourself. Instead, you feel... calm. Safe. Seen. 💞This post explores the psychology behind love that feels easy — and why it’s not too good to be true. 🌈1. Safety Creates Simpli..

Love PsychologyEp18: Why Do We Fall for People Who Confuse Us? “One day they’re warm… the next day, cold.”If you’ve ever been caught in the emotional whirlwind of mixed signals, you’re not alone. We don’t just fall for clarity — we often fall for chaos. But why? And what does that say about how we love? 🤔This post explores why confusing partners can feel addictive — and how to break free.1. The..

Love PsychologyEp17: Why Do We Fall for Emotionally Unavailable People?“Why do I always fall for people who don’t open up emotionally?”It’s a question that haunts even the strongest of us. You give warmth — they grow colder. You reach out — they shut down. And the worst part? You keep falling for the same kind of person. Over and over again. 😢This post will change the way you understand that pa..

It’s not love if your nervous system is always in overdrive. That’s anxiety—and it’s asking for safety, not romance.Many people confuse anxiety for chemistry. The butterflies. The obsession. The constant waiting. It feels exciting—until it feels exhausting. Anxious love keeps you chasing clarity that never comes. You’re not building connection; you’re fighting for reassurance.Why Anxious Love Fe..

We don’t fall for what’s good for us—we fall for what feels like home. And sometimes, home was chaos.Have you ever felt instantly connected to someone—like you’ve known them forever? That sense of “familiarity” can feel romantic, even magical. But often, it’s not magic. It’s your nervous system recognizing an emotional pattern from the past. And that pattern isn’t always healthy.Why Familiarity ..

They weren’t consistent, kind, or ready—but you kept hoping they’d become all three.There’s a romantic trap many people fall into: We meet someone who isn’t quite right—but something about them sparks hope. So we stay, invest, and wait. Not for who they are now, but for who they might become. This is what it looks like to fall for potential instead of reality.Why We Romanticize PotentialWe see t..

Not everyone who says “I love you” is really saying “I see you.”There’s a confusing dynamic in modern relationships: You meet someone who showers you with attention, praises you, and seems totally into you. But over time, something feels off. You give more and feel less seen. You start to wonder: Do they love me… or just love being loved?What Does “Loving to Be Loved” Look Like?It’s about valida..

Love should be warm and safe, but for some, it feels like walking into a fire.Have you ever loved someone deeply—only to watch them pull away just when things got serious? This emotional pattern, often called "love avoidance," is more common than we think. And it usually hides a history of emotional pain, attachment anxiety, or deep-rooted self-doubt.Why Love Feels Dangerous to SomeFear of rejec..

"Everything is fine… so why do I feel like something is wrong?"You’re dating someone who communicates well. They’re kind, consistent, and emotionally available. There’s no drama, no mind games. And yet, inside your chest — a flutter of anxiety. You’re waiting for the other shoe to drop. You wonder if you’re losing interest. Or if it’s "too good to be true."This is called safety anxiety — the dis..